Curious about butt plugs but not sure where to start? You’re not alone. Anal play is more popular than ever, and when done right, it can feel incredibly pleasurable, empowering, and fun. Whether you’re exploring solo or with a partner, this beginner’s guide covers everything you need to know about butt plugs, from choosing the right size to staying safe and comfortable.
Let’s take the mystery out of it and make your first experience feel confident and exciting.
What Is a Butt Plug?
A butt plug is a pleasure toy designed specifically for anal stimulation. Unlike other toys, butt plugs are shaped to be inserted and stay comfortably in place, offering a feeling of fullness and hands-free pleasure. Many people enjoy them during foreplay, solo sessions, or paired with other toys for added sensation.
At FunLove, you’ll find a wide variety of butt plugs from small, beginner-friendly options to advanced and vibrating designs, so you can explore at your own pace.
👉 Browse our full Butt Plugs Collection to see beginner and advanced options.
Are Butt Plugs Safe for Beginners?
Yes, when used properly, butt plugs are absolutely beginner-friendly. The key is choosing the right style and taking things slow.
Beginner butt plugs are typically:
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Smaller in size
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Smooth and tapered for easy insertion
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Made from body-safe materials like silicone
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Designed with a flared base for safety
That flared base is important; it helps keep the plug secure and makes removal easy and worry-free.
Choosing the Right Size (This Matters!)
If this is your first time, smaller is better. Starting with a small or beginner butt plug allows your body to relax and adjust comfortably.
Here’s a simple guide:
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First-timers: Small or beginner butt plugs
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Some experience: Medium-sized plugs or weighted designs
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Experienced users: Larger sizes or vibrating butt plugs
There’s no rush to size up.. pleasure is about comfort, not competition.
Do You Need Lube? (Yes. Always.)
Lube isn’t optional when it comes to anal play, it’s essential. The anal area doesn’t naturally lubricate, so using a generous amount of personal lubricant helps reduce friction and enhances comfort and pleasure.
Pro tip: Reapply as needed and go slow. More lube = better experience.
What Does It Feel Like?
Everyone’s experience is different, but many beginners describe butt plugs as:
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A gentle feeling of fullness
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A warming or stretching sensation
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Intensified pleasure when combined with other stimulation
Once inserted, butt plugs can feel surprisingly comfortable, and many people enjoy wearing them during other types of play or foreplay.
Butt Plugs vs. Anal Beads: What’s the Difference?
Both are great options, but they offer different experiences:
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Butt plugs are designed to stay in place and provide continuous sensation.
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Anal beads are inserted and removed gradually, creating stimulation through movement.
If you’re brand new, butt plugs are often the easier starting point.
👉 Curious? Explore our Anal Beads Collection for another way to play.
Beginner Tips for a Great First Experience
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Relax and take your time
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Use plenty of lube
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Start with a small size
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Listen to your body, pleasure should never hurt
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Clean your toy before and after use
Confidence grows with comfort, and there’s no “right” pace except your own.
Ready to Explore?
Trying a butt plug for the first time can feel exciting, empowering, and surprisingly fun, especially when you start with the right toy. FunLove’s butt plug collection is curated to help beginners feel supported, confident, and curious every step of the way.
XOXO,
Funlove 💋